To judge or not to judge, part ii, or something…

I’m going to be deliberately vague on this, so as to not identify specific individuals…. This has happened more that once to me. I turn on the computer, and the first thing I see is two of my friends are separating and/or divorcing. I don’t take sides in cases like this. It’s already messed up without me adding more fire to the drama. And 9 times out of 10 (in fact 10 times out of 10) I don’t know the whole situation. And 11 times out of 10, I don’t need to know. It’s just none of my business. I don’t need to judge. Whether or not to separate is a decision that my approval is not needed or asked for. If people want to talk to me, I’ll listen. But I’ll just keep mum on it until then…